At least they're nice now versus before Christmas. Overheard from one girlfriend to another:
"I love this store."
"It makes me want to sing and skip through the store."
At least they're nice now versus before Christmas. Overheard from one girlfriend to another:
"I love this store."
"It makes me want to sing and skip through the store."
Also, staying at my sis's - can't WAIT to see her!! Usually she comes down to see me but since she knew I was coming up she didn't this time and it feels really weird to be back in my hometown without her around.
Thanks for the Christmas present, Oma!
Sorry for the vent but seriously if you don't want to do something SAY IT instead of blaming it on his schedule, whims, and fancies, cause I'm gonna stop asking and be pissed that you're not saying how it is.
Also, choose your own fun, girl!!! Don't let something you want to do not happen just because your man doesn't feel like it. I am so sick of having to be dragged into whatever he feels like as well since that's all he'll ever do!! We have fun any way, but stand up to him so maybe one of these days we can do something one of the rest of the four of us has chosen to do.
Excuse the bitch moment.
This must fall under the category of things I want to say out loud but haven't quite figured out how to come across as a total bitch while doing so.
1.) Discuss what you learned about yourself in the whole of the semester in
general.
2.) Discuss what you learned about yourself in this class.In this class I learned I like to be very factual and informational. I learned I would rather be quiet than speak on something I have not yet researched.
In this class I learned from other people that each person has their own speaking style, and that each style is wonderful and unique to that person and the message they have to deliver.
3.) Discuss what you discovered/learned from other people in this class.
4.) What do you honestly think you made in this course, in other words what
would you give yourself as a grade if you could grade your self-be
realistic! Base your answer on how hard you tried/what you put into it,
grades you have made, participation, attendance-have you missed a lot & why,
improvements as the course went along in your skills, et. Anything else your
grade should be based on?
5.) Final Thoughts:
Part II-
1.) Formulate a general question about communication at large. Just ask the question. In can be general or specific.
Formulate a general question about public speaking at large. Just ask the question. In can be general or specific, or relate to specific problem.
My question about public speaking at large is: what is the best way to communicate your subject to your audience through public speaking?
2.) Briefly discuss how you have grown as a speaker. Then list 3 things you feel you do well as a speaker.
3.) List at least three additional tips to giving a speech.
4.) What is the most important element in the introduction?
Consequences:
Pushups (10 for Shawners, 20 for Justinbustin) - pull over and have them get out and do if need be
Holding hands
10 Things I appreciate about you (can't do anything until you state those 10 things to the other person)
Rewards:
Pool at end of day
Movie night at end of day
Store
Treat (once a day) when they've been good and we are getting one any way
Volunteer opportunities:
Church - call for specific jobs
I already used the pulling over to have them do pushups (oh so good for getting the energy out of boys), movie night at the end of day (if they were good the rest of the day and SHOCKINGLY they were - even after a morning of pulling my hair out and making me want to scream fighting). Today the goal is being good til' 5pm with the goal of having a movie night. We've already biked to the business center and played two games of pool. They've built a fort in their room. We have four and a half hours left.
On Being a Housewife
As far as the housewife mode, this is the extent of Brando's and my texts to each other this morning:
Me: Falling into depression because I have nothing going on this week. I'm so predictable.
Him: Then go do something. Ride bikes, go to a park, walk town lake with the boys.
Me: Too much work, too hot, and too dirty.
Him: Clean the house, do laundry, clean the boys room.
Me: Too demeaning, too boring, and too many fights.
Him: Research how to market photography on social networks, research how to buy investment real-estate commercial or residential. Figure what you want to do with school.
Me: Hmmm, interesting, lots of work but fun if I can keep it organized, and getting there.
Him: I'm insulted that you find caring for our living space demeaning by the way.
Me: I'm insulted that is all I'm good for.
Him: It's not.
Me: It's the second assumed thing that I'm good for.
Committed by Elizabeth Gilbert Book Review and Thoughts
So yeah. I've been reading Committed by Elizabeth Gilbert and just finished it today. I LOVED it, absolutely loved it. Gilbert fully explored all my own confusions and hangups about marriage and family life by exploring her own confusions and hangups, researching them, interviewing people about them, poring over studies (or more correctly, a study) about them, and drawing her own conclusions. The ending was a neat and tidy, almost quick, wrap up, but after her thorough exploration of all of her confusions it was exactly what was needed. I'm still wrapping my brain around her conclusion myself, but it may have just been the conclusion I needed to quell my own misgivings about this institution of marriage. Maybe marriage, the union of two beings, is something WE created, not the church, the state, the country, or society created, as Gilbert realizes in the end (leading up to this, you would never see this coming, so sorry if I spoiled the ending for you, but honestly, I think knowing that would've helped my own snarky attitude toward my marriage as I read through the book).