UGH SO FRUSTRATED.
Just found out one of my closest friends is DATING A MARRIED MAN. Seriously?!
I'm not going to spill the whole shpeel here because really I'm just over it.
I'll nutshell it by saying just because the wife did something wrong doesn't make what he is doing, and my friend is doing right.
I need to call her out on it. She's too close to phase out as a friend.
And I would want her to call me out on something that was so blatantly bad for me.
I have to do it.
But I don't want to. It's going to be a difficult conversation and I may lose her as a friend.
I don't want to. But I also don't want to keep her as a friend if I can't say what is on my mind.
Here's to our friendship and crossing fingers it stays.
Wow - that's crazy. I think that's horrible and it makes me sick to my stomach. They both know what they are doing too - sick. And I don't know how could anyone do that to someone. Sorry.. I guess I'm going on a rant too, but I would just be as furious. But I do think you need to talk to your friend - someone needs to set her straight. Good luck babe.
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Thanks, girl. I've been waking up with a sore jaw because I'm so tense over it this last week!! Crazy, right?
ReplyDeleteI did talk to her, and said three pointed things:
*She deserves better
*If he really loved her, he'd make it final before he was with her
*She's being a homewrecker
She wasn't shocked, because she had been asking herself the same questions that day.
Once I had let her know that morning that I needed to talk to her she was thinking to herself she doesn't want to lose me as a friend, and I told her I was thinking the same thing which is why I took all week to think on it, but had to say something. We ended the conversation saying we are glad we're still friends.
She already knows it's wrong, or at least she said over and over. Not sure she *realizes* it yet.